Choosing the right words for funeral flowers takes thougthful consideration and can feel overwhelming during an already difficult time. In this article, we will share messages you can write for any circumstance.
Whether its for a family member, a close friend or someone else, we will guide you to express your feelings with sincerity.
Funeral flowers serve as a tribute to those we’ve lost, as well as offering a small token to the person who has lost someone.
In British tradition, we typically write small messages on a card attached to these flowers offering a personal touch or condolences.
General Messages for Funeral Flowers
When you’re unsure of what to write, these thoughtful messages work well and can be applied to any circumstance.
- “With deepest sympathy”
- “Forever in our thoughts”
- “Remembered with love”
- “Rest peacefully”
- “With love and fond memories”
These simple and short phrases can stand alone or serve as an opening or closing to a more personal message.
Messages for Close Family Members
For Dad
The message you write to your father can be short and simple, or include a personal message or memory that should reflect your relationship with them.
- “To my wonderful Dad, thank you for everything. Rest peacefully.”
- “Dad, your strength and wisdom will guide us always. Until we meet again.”
- “Sleep well, Dad. The garden will never be the same without you.”
These are short, but offer a more personal touch than the more generic ones mentioned previously. Feel free to add in a short message about how you used to listen to music together or something meaningful.
For Mum
Similarly to your dad, the messages to your mum can be short and simple or more specific, reflecting the special bond that you shared together.
- “To my beautiful Mum, thank you for your endless love and care.”
- “Rest peacefully, Mum. Your love will forever light our way.”
- “Missing you always, Mum. Thank you for teaching me everything I know.”
For Grandparents
The message to your grandparents should reflect the special bond that has gone through generations. Whether you were spoiled with food and treats or maybe they shared stories of times gone by – your message should reflect these beautiful memories.
Grandmother
- “To our beloved Nan, thanks for all the cuddles and cake. Rest peacefully.”
- “Granny, your love made our world brighter. Forever missed.”
Grandfather
- “To Grandad, thanks for all the stories and wisdom. Rest easy.”
- “Grandad, your jokes and smile will stay with us always. Sleep well.”
Extended Family and Friends
For Aunts and Uncles
- “Fond memories of Sunday lunches and family gatherings. Rest in peace, Aunt Sarah.”
- “Uncle Tom, your laughter will echo in our hearts forever.”
For Friends
- “To my dearest friend, thank you for all the memories we shared.”
- “Rest peacefully, mate. The world was brighter with you in it.”
Professional Relationships
Colleagues
Keep messages respectful and professional while showing genuine care:
- “A respected colleague and treasured friend. Rest in peace.”
- “With fond memories of working together. You will be missed.”
Writing Tips
Do:
- Write clearly and legibly
- Keep messages concise (card space is often limited)
- Include your name or family name
- Consider your relationship with the deceased
- Proofread your message
Avoid:
- Overly casual language
- Religious references (unless you know they’re appropriate)
- Lengthy messages that won’t fit on the card
- Mentioning uncomfortable topics or past disputes
Special Considerations
Group Messages
When sending flowers from a group, consider inclusive messages:
- “From all your friends at the Richmond Tennis Club”
- “With love from the entire Williams family”
Children’s Messages
- “To the best grandad ever. Love from Tommy”
- “We will miss your bedtime stories. Love, Sophie and Jack”
Final Thoughts
It’s easy to overthink and get overwhelmed by what to write. Remember, the fact that you are writing a small card means more to the person than you’d think.
Choose messages that feel genuine more than the “perfect” message. The most meaningful messages come from the heart.
Also read: How To Write A Sympathy Card
